Take control

from last couple of months, I feel I have been downed in the valley of flaws.

Lots of negativity surrounds me.

I was so contaminated by the sick thoughts of few people around me

But then I felt … when life is all about DIY (Do It yourself) strategies

Why give someone else power to choose the way I be happy?

Why blame someone and become weaker.

Yes, I understand some people do not understand the language of politeness

But why react in an aggressive manner and shoot up my blood pressure and give them a reason to ridicule me

Let me take control of my emotions, my life and be powerful.

My thoughts on few questions

Well I would like to answer few questions asked to me which I think are very thought provoking

  • What comes first:filial duties or personal satisfaction?

When I see the word filial, I am in an assumption that filial duties are duties towards your dependents.

Well, I would say that if you keep my loved ones happy, eventually you would be happy. Therefore, that suffices the question .

  • Eating or breathing,which one is more important?

These two things complement each other

If I don’t breath I cannot eat. And If I don’t eat I will not breathe. Not sure why this question popped up? Well both are important to keep you healthy.i would mention

I eat nutritious food and I do pranayama(Breathing exercise) to stay healthy

  • Your favourite quote on life?

There are multiple . I will quote Few of them

  1. Ideation without execution is just a delusion
  2. “Your “I CAN” is more important than your IQ.”
  3. investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make


  • The craziest thing you have done so far?

Again Many . I could remember all the pranks during college days , Dancing to folk songs when Hip hop is my forte . It was a crazy, fun and a personal challenge to myself.

  • Ur favourite book and why??

Multiple , I will mention few of them .

who will cry when you die / Leader who has no title– Robin Sharma

A walk to remember –Nicholas Spark

Steve Jobs- by walter issacson

Tuesdays with Morrie

Over the top-zig ziglar

  • Alcohol?elucidate your feelings for it.

A STRONG NO. I would never prefer , consume or recommend it

  • Do you dream about being successful or happy and why?

Both are complementary

I always have goals that will lead me to happiness. I always enjoy the process or journey towards my dream.

I believe every successful milestone should make you happy.

Having a balance between your professional success and success you achieve as human being and different roles you play in personal life .

However, I also believe what that success is in your business when your own home life is in shambles

  • Is love really worth the time?

Yes, its and integral part of life

Have you ever taken credit for someone else’s hard work to gain the spotlight?

NO, all that credits which I got is of my own efforts.

The success, which came to you by taking credit of other’s hard work, will not remain forever. Moreover, I never call that success

Abundance in life -Money or Happiness?

we all like being rich, having luxurious life. but ever thought , “Is Money the only thing we need in Life?”

my friend sent an image with a nice quote . it says “you are considered to be truly wealthy if you have all that which even Money cant buy ” very profound but yes i had to agree with that.

of-course, in the city we live , to the kind of lifestyle we are trying to adapt to and rate at which inflation is growing and cost of living is increasing , so as our needs are increasing which requires a good amount of money Practically.

but on the contrary .even if you acquire all the assets you desire but you loose your mental peace , your focus , then do you think these monetary gain is worth acquiring.?

there are hundreds of things to be achieved in life apart from money.  beautiful relationships with your dear ones, the pleasure of achieving your personal milestones (even if it’s small) 

somewhere is read ->”Happiness transports you to a higher vibration. You make connections with people that generate opportunities. -Erica Nelson”

it might not be appropriate to discuss whether money is important or not .. but i must say “you being happy is important”