Acceptance


Time and again it has happened that we start expecting much when we fall in a relationship

Now here is a things which I observed which can lead to a hole in the ship of relationship

People want their partners to change, she expects him to think like she do and he expect her to feel and behave in a way he like her to. I’m sorry guys this doesn’t work like this. May be they need a large amount of acceptance over here.

Sometimes an ugly feeling may creep in Ur mind that if she/he doesn’t like the way I am then why did he/she accept me initially. what I say is do not enforce a change in a behavior or a thought process of your partner until it is for betterment and your partner understand it and agrees to it .

Both have their own principles in life they follow they believe in different thought process.

But in marriages and relationships, these are to be share with each other. See if these can work in situation where you both need to make strong decisions.

Ok I leave you with this thought for today

“Stop blaming others. Change is a part of life and let it start with you”D

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Sponge Bob Squarepants and his message


Does anyone watch cartoons here ? if yes does anyone know about SpongeBob SquarePants ?/

i love that character. he is one of a kind . jovial, optimistic and very friendly in nature .

when i say one of a kind , i mean he is proud to be who he is , he love his job, his unique qualities .

when we see world best Entrepreneurs,best Actors, best Sportsmen . how did they become what they are today .

they knew a simple rule

“Do not Give up on your Dreams , just be follow the crowd”  

Now you can be the best in what you do . you just have to have crystal clear dreams and zeal to achieve your aspirations .

you don’t have to do what rest of mass does. you are designed to be unique , possess and develop your unique skills and optimistically forge ahead towards your dream destination

and yeah be like SpongeBob .. Go watch .

now this completes my 2nd day challenge of Quotes . but yeah i loved sharing this quote with you folk .

Stronger Connections


I often come hear people saying “my relationship status is COMPLICATED”. I DO Interact with them and try to know when relationship can sometimes be extremely complicated and often I realized that to build and maintain Quality relationship requires few things which we often fail to follow.

How often do we understand that it’s important we have to build trust, remain consistent and become a person who is reliable in every situation?

Mutual respect is a thing we never bother about. I often hear people come to me saying “it was alright in the beginning. We respected each other’s view and differences also. But its 2-3 month and its not the same…”
Well I say its just2-3 months and if people are finding hard to respect the uniqueness of an individual which would make them feel very valuable and important then how about being with them for a lifetime.??

Recently I read an article which says people DO NOT communicate about important issues in their relationships and let the problem stack up.
Also we fail to listen attentively, calmly, quietly when the other person is sharing the emotions.
But when you do listen, it sends them a signal that u respect the other person’s emotions and deepen the level of trust. That’s what I feel

Recently I heard from my a good friend of mine who shares that he lacks care from his partner.
But that’s the greatest gift u can give to ur partner-THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE.

I know we have also always accustomed to criticizing comparing and complaining. But if we can be people builder rather than people-basher life would much more wonderful.

I have read somewhere and I follow the principle which says “catch them doing right” (them may refer to your teammate, your partner, your friend, child)

Finally I would say be helpful. Your willingness to step in and do little things to decrease the burden felt by ur family is always appreciated and respected. Share , contribute and help each other.
People can share their views on they have built successful human relationship