I heard this slogan somewhere “life or mind is terrible master and a wonderful slave” either you should have a control over it or you will be made to dance to the tunes of life.
How often we see, people always complain, blame their managers for appraisal ratings
Blame wife/husband for unhappy home lives, blame boyfriend/girlfriend for all the heartbreaks
Blame strangers for some odd reasons, shopkeepers for not giving the change, police for catching you driving without license. But that’s a sad way to live. Who is the victim here??
We expect our partner/boss/strangers to change the way they live speak and react for your life to change. Observe that your life or mind for that matter is controlled by these people.
You’re becoming powerless. Who do you think should be held accountable for whatever happens in life?
Dint clear interviews?? people always Blame it on HR
Flunked exams?? people always Blame it on valuator
Breakups in relationship? people always Blame it on partner.
Well actually the better person to talk about problems in in your relationships is the person whom you’re in relation with.
Let’s analyze a little more and check if anything could have been done from our end which could have turned the things around and life would be still better?
And of course there will be situations where your partner has done something wrong
Well I believe life’s greatest difficulties are actually life’s biggest blessings,
As they make you stronger enough to face situations like this
While writing this post I remember the song sung by Akon “Blame it on Me”
Well to conclude.. lets understand that when you play blame games you’re really saying that they’ve shaped your destiny and are the cause of your current conditions.