Time and again it has happened that we start expecting much when we fall in a relationship
Now here is a things which I observed which can lead to a hole in the ship of relationship
People want their partners to change, she expects him to think like she do and he expect her to feel and behave in a way he like her to. I’m sorry guys this doesn’t work like this. May be they need a large amount of acceptance over here.
Sometimes an ugly feeling may creep in Ur mind that if she/he doesn’t like the way I am then why did he/she accept me initially. what I say is do not enforce a change in a behavior or a thought process of your partner until it is for betterment and your partner understand it and agrees to it .
Both have their own principles in life they follow they believe in different thought process.
But in marriages and relationships, these are to be share with each other. See if these can work in situation where you both need to make strong decisions.
Ok I leave you with this thought for today
“Stop blaming others. Change is a part of life and let it start with you”D